Etiwhat? Good manners for the matrimony!

by Jenny Bryde 8. December 2014 01:25

Who, what, where, when, why, and how?  And will Aunt Tilly be offended?  Avoiding wedding faux pas can be a daunting task, so today I've collected a number of articles to point the frenzied affianced in the right direction.  Below you will find links to some major guides on how to be proper for your ceremony.  Then again, you may want to throw out the towel and say who cares?  But for those of you who definitely want to avoid Grandmother's severe scrutiny, please feel free to use the tips linked below!

Wedding ceremony basics

Ceremony etiquette 101

Escorting guests to proper seating

Top 24 wedding etiquette questions

 

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Location Spotlight: Costello's Old Mill Wedding Site and Reception Hall!

by Jenny Bryde 12. February 2011 05:25

We have such a treat in store for you today, dear readers!  One of our best Quad City wedding locations has become a part of our QCWeddings.com family and has given us some amazing pictures and info to let you know how they could be of service to you on your wedding day.

If you haven’t already booked your ceremony or reception location, you may want to lean in a little closer to your screen and read up on the breathtaking Costello’s Old Mill Wedding Site and Reception Hall located in Maquoketa, Iowa.  What you will experience at this fabulous location will be romantic views, charming nostalgia, and exceptional service for your wedding experience.  Allow my pun as I tell you that this location is not your run of the mill wedding experience. 

Tracy Costello Taylor, the owner and on-site wedding coordinator, is eager to have potential brides and grooms visit their site during the open season which runs from May to October each year.  With nearly five years of wedding experience, eleven years of event planning experience, and gregarious nature, Tracy leads a staff with capable hands eager to serve you on your wedding day. 

The property itself is starred by an 1867 limestone mill reminiscent of a day in the countryside, and speaking of countryside, take a look at the surrounding property.  Gorgeous wildlife views set Costello’s Old Mill Wedding Site and Reception Hall in a class of its own.  There just isn’t a bad view no matter where you look.  A wedding taking place here provides a sense of lovely escapism from a busy life in “the city” as your guests admire the five acres of park-like setting. 

 

One of the features of this location is that they have the ability to provide a location for your ceremony AND your reception which makes the transition so much easier for the wedding party and guests.  No need to leave your guests waiting or scrambling to find another location; they are right where they need to be.  I can just picture these trees as the backdrop for a private ceremony.  Would you even need to add any additional décor??

 

Another feature of Costello’s Old Mill Wedding Site and Reception Hall is that they allow you to bring in any catering service.  With so many talented and varied caterers around the QCA, your choices are endless as the staff here can work seamlessly with the caterer of your choice.  Whether it’s buffet style or a plated dinner, the professional staff at Costello’s Old Mill Wedding Site and Reception Hall can host up to 175 guests for a seated dinner. 

 

The name of the game here is service and natural beauty, so with a staff eager to serve and a naturally beautiful location, how could you want something more?  During the off season, you can contact Tracy via email at costellosoldmill@hotmail.com.  Stop by their website for even more info, and start planning now for your 2011 and 2012 weddings!

 

Thank you Tracy for giving us a sneak peek into such a beautiful place!  So lovely! 

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Ceremony Music Suggestions: The Vitamin String Quartet

by Jenny Bryde 9. October 2010 02:15

When it came time for us to pick out our wedding ceremony music, I hesitated.  Hesitation turned into procrastination, and procrastination led to us picking out ceremony music a few days before the actual ceremony.  For someone who is so overly decisive with usually too many ideas to pick from, why did I find finding music so difficult?  

I think that it boiled down to the these factors:  1)  I don’t know a lot about music.  2)  I haven’t ever been exactly moved by music at wedding ceremonies that I’ve attended.  3)  I wanted our ceremony to match the fun and relaxed atmosphere that we were going for with the reception.  

All these ideas in my head made finding music for the ceremony tricky for me.  I didn’t want to have like an all out jam session for the ceremony; I mean, we did want to have a somewhat traditional look/feel to our ceremony.  On the other hand, I didn’t want to pick out music that felt cliched or boring to me.  So in short, I wanted our guests to listen to the music and say “Hey this is a ceremony AND I really like this music!”  

In an offbeat random spurge of luck, I stumbled upon a discussion board talking about the Vitamin String Quartet.  Wha??  I had never heard of them, but all I saw were rave reviews from many, many people who also dropped some key words such as “non-traditional” and “fun” in their comments.  I was intrigued, so I hunted down a few tracks of theirs to listen.

What did I find, you ask?  A goldmine of appropriate and fun music selections for all parts of our ceremony.  Basically the Vitamin String Quartet is your traditional string quartet, but they only play versions of classic rock and pop songs.  The result of their genius are tracks that sound totally appropriate for a special occasion that people can relate to because they sit and listen and start to think to themselves, “Hey, isn’t this ‘Sweet Child O’ Mine’ by GNR???”

Here are some of the tracks that we ended up using for our ceremony prelude music:

 




The effect was exactly what we wanted.  Judging by our guests who were standing in the cold mist to attend our ceremony, the music was not putting them to sleep, nor was anyone yawning.  Later, one of the biggest compliments we had was our music.  People loved it!  If you'd like to see more songs by the Vitamin String Quartet, click here to go to their YouTube channel where there are dozens of other memorable songs turned into "classical-esque" remixes. 

What have you decided on for your ceremony music?  Something traditional?  Something trendy?  Something in between?  Share your thoughts on the message board!  

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Introducing the Newest Hot Spot for Weddings in the QCA: The Hotel Blackhawk!

by Jenny Bryde 28. July 2010 00:55

Oh, do I have a treat for you today, boys and girls.  I know that I often put teasing photos on my posts of places that only exist in our QCA imagination, but today, we have a bona fide luxury hotel property to show off that 1) IS in the Quad Cities, and 2) IS available for QCA brides!

Today on the blog, we are introducing the newly renovated Hotel Blackhawk which is simply a dreamy slice of posh sitting right smack dab in the middle of downtown Davenport.  Nestled right next to the River Center, the Hotel Blackhawk is in the neighborhood of places such as the Figge Art Museum, the Bucktown Center for the Arts, and the riverfront area. 

 

I recently had the priviledge to pick the brain of Tim Heim, the Director of Marketing and Sales for the Hotel Blackhawk who filled me in on just how this delightful place is going to be a much needed luxury property that will suit the needs of so many brides and grooms.  Check out all the juicy details in our interview below…

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JB:  When a bride and groom decide to book their reception with the HB, who will they be working with (also the person they should contact if interested in booking or a tour)?

TH:  For the time being, the couples can contact me directly.  With the opening of several hotels and the execution of QCA bridal shows, I have had extensive direct experience in the QCA bridal market.  As the Director of Sales and Marketing, I can say that the Black Hawk Hotel is positioned really well.  Our staff understands the bridal market and we are offering high end services and amenities.   Our goal is to  create fairy tale weddings to our QC brides and grooms. 

We are soon bringing on an event coordinator who will be a great addition to our team.  This person has worked at luxury properties in major tier cities and is very familiar with high end services and amenities in the bridal market.  Together, we have over  fifteen years of bridal experience. 

JB:  It sounds like the staff of the HB knows their weddings!  How does the HB property tie in to the “fairy tale wedding”? 

TH:  You should come down and take a look!  The HB is truly going to be a luxury style boutique hotel with an old meets new type of feel:  high end furnishings and amenities.  Our sleeping rooms have a modern feel and our atmosphere is similar to high end hotels in larger markets.  The Hotel Blackhawk will be a very unique property to the QC area. 

JB:  With not all weddings being the same, what size of weddings can the HB accommodate? 

TH:   We can accommodate any size of party!  On the larger side, we can hold up to 300 people for a reception, and we even have space on site for the wedding ceremony.  We have a built in stage for a dance floor and a mezzanine area as an overflow area for cocktails and hand passed hors doeuvres.  If a couple is looking to have a smaller wedding or if they are looking for a smaller space for a rehearsal dinner or other gathering, we can do that too!  We have the Club Davenport room up on the 11th floor that can hold up to 60 people, and we have other break out rooms as well!  We even have an 8 lane bowling alley that can be used.

JB:  A bowling alley?  That is so unique!  I could see that being a really fun place for a bachelorette party!

TH:  Yes, or even if the couple wanted a place where children can  go hang out during the wedding. 

JB:  Great idea!  So many of our couples are looking for something different in their reception catering.  What kind of banquet is the HB equipped to host? 

TH:  We do all of our catering in house here at the HB.  We can do anything from a plated dinner, buffet, action stations, heavy hors d’oeuvres, cocktail receptions, brunches, gift openings, you name it!  If a couple would like to know more about our menu, they can send me an email, and I will send info along to them. 

JB:  It sounds like you guys can do anything!  Beyond food, what services are included in a reservation and what services can be added?

TH:  We have all the tables and chairs that a couple would require, and all of the tables will be covered in linens.  All the china and glassware are also included with their booking of the catering services.  We also include the cake cutting service in most of our bridal packages.  We also have some audio/visual equipment that the couples can rent. 

JB:  If there is a service that the HB doesn’t provide, for example a DJ, do you make recommendations for the couples?

TH:  Definitely!  I have worked extensively in the QCA bridal market over nearly a decade, and depending on what a bride and groom needs, I can definitely steer them in the right direction.  We have established relationships with many local vendors and will even help the bride and groom by making contact with the vendors when the wedding approaches to ensure that all details of the day are covered. 

JB:  What about services beyond a wedding?  What information should brides and grooms know about reserving a block of rooms for their guests? 

TH:  We like to make the wedding guests happy too!  A block of rooms can be reserved for a Friday or Saturday as needed.  All rooms include wireless internet, shuttle  service to the QC airport, and access to the pool and fitness room.  We have valet parking available as well as concierge service to help our guests feel at home in the QCA. 

JB:  Well it looks like you’ve got all angles covered!  If brides and grooms are reading this and are interested in more information on booking, how far in advance can they contact you?

TH:  The couples should call as early as they like to see which days we have open that can accommodate their needs.  We have our official opening this December, and we have already booked several wedding and events all the way through 2012!  We can also show brides and grooms some sample storyboards with swatches to help them visualize their wedding ideas.  We are still developing our website, but couples can have direct access to our services by calling me at 563.639.9124 or by accessing our Facebook page where we continually add information, pictures, and updates! 

JB:  Well what can I say?  The HB property is gorgeous, the service available is superb, and I’m definitely going to have to come down and try out that bowling alley!

TH:  Please do!  We are so pleased to be able to offer our QCA brides and grooms a high end luxury property that can accommodate any gathering with impeccable attention to details and service! 

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Talking to Tim was such a delight, and I can tell you that whoever decides to book their event with the Hotel Blackhawk is going to find themselves in very capable and stylish hands.  Give Tim a call or stop in to the Hotel Blackhawk after its grand opening in December.  Remember that you can book today, and with a property this hot, the dates won’t stay open for long!  Happy Planning!  J

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Not Your Average Ceremony

by Jenny Bryde 24. July 2009 02:50

If you haven't seen this amazing wedding video yet, you are missing out!  Watch this, and just try not to get up and dance.  Just try...


Are any of you Quad City couples planning on a special dance at the ceremony or reception?  We'd love to hear about it!  

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